I know I've always been silly, but seriously, this is the stupidest thing I've ever done in my life and I'm so confused, I don't even know who to turn to.
Ever since I was in secondary school, I've been known to be a lover of many women. I used to be very proud of my achievements but when I got married and couldn't stop it, I started wondering if there wasn't something wrong with me. I just can't get satisfied with sleeping with one woman at a time.
After my wedding in 2011, I actually made up my mind to stay away from other women but it never went down the way I planned. Whenever I traveled, I'd see easy women, who I always boasted fell for my charms and I will quickly have a fling with them.
In Dec last year, I went to Port-Harcourt for an official meeting. The receptionist at the hotel that I stayed at was very attractive and she seemed to be into me. Before long, I gave her my card and we met up later in the evening. We went clubbing and I took her to my hotel room to finish up what we started after all the steaming dance at the club.
The sex was really good and I decided I'll call her again whenever I'm in Port-Harcourt but somehow, I sort of forgot about her until she called me last week and told me she's 7 months pregnant for me. Meanwhile, my wife is due to have our first child at the end of this month!
In-short, 'confused' does not even start to describe how I feel. I'm afraid to talk to my wife and this other woman said she's very sure I'm the father of her child. She said she didn't have a boyfriend at the time and hadn't slept with other men.
Please I don't need people judging me here. I need candid advise on how to handle this. I don't want to loose or hurt my wife and my friends are saying I should just ignore the other girl that she might be lying but what if she's saying the truth? I feel so messed up.